Busting Excuses: Why You Deserve A Boudoir Experience
When we get nervous, we make excuses. We make excuses not to love ourselves or take care of ourselves. Sometimes life is just busy, things are too crazy at work, or we always have to drive someone SOMEWHERE. Sometimes it’s more important to spend time with our spouse. We also use excuses like “I wanna lose 15 lbs first!” and “I just don’t have the money right now!”. I wanted to write this to show you all that no matter the excuse, you CAN do it! Let me show you that no mater the excuse, you are worthy of self love.
“I don’t have enough time for myself.”
It’s also important to remember that if you aren’t taking care of yourself mentally, you’re not going to be able to handle taking care of everyone else, which makes sense but is actually much harder said than done! Sometimes I am the WORST at making sure I am giving myself mental health breaks and that’s why I think it’s so important to share this with you all. I make the same excuses as above and sometimes I need someone to look me in the face and say, “SLOW DOWN, give yourself a break, breathe for a minute!”.
At a boudoir shoot, you are able to breathe and love yourself for a few hours. Think of all the energy you’ll save on a daily basis if you stop comparing yourself to others, so stop worrying about what other people will think of how you look. You get to see where your beauty really comes from and this lifts such a huge mental weight.
You need to take time for yourself. Why not spend it having an amazing time and getting glammed up for once?
“I’m not where I want to be weight wise / I don’t fit the media’s idea of a good enough size.”
Did you know that the body type portrayed in advertising as the “ideal” is possessed naturally by only 5% of American females? ONLY FIVE PERCENT!
I will say this over and over again (and sorry, not sorry if you’ve heard me say it before), but WHY do you have to be a certain size to LOVE yourself? WHY do you have to fit a strangers messed up idea of a perfect body to LOVE your own body? WHY are you comparing your size to everyone else, when no two women are the same?
“I never feel sexy or sensual anymore, so a boudoir shoot must not be for me.”
WRONG.
This excuse is actually the EXACT reason why you SHOULD do a boudoir session.
Often times we lose touch with our femininity or sexuality when life gets crazy because of health / kids / work. It happens a lot, and it is absolutely normal and okay! A great way to find this side of ourselves again is to have a boudoir shoot done to out that spark back in us. I can show you that you have that inside you somewhere, and it might even ignite a spark between you and your spouse as well!
Another thing to remember is that you don’t HAVE to wear super sexy clothing / lingerie. If you feel like this doesn’t show your personality, then there are so many other outfit ideas. I will gladly talk to you about them, or you can check out our blog on finding outfits here!
“A boudoir session is an investment, and I don’t have all the money right now.”
Yes, a boudoir session IS an investment. It is also an investment in yourself. You are investing in your well-being and confidence as well! As Sioux Fall boudoir photographers, we do offer payment plans. In order to book your session, there is a booking retainer. After that, we can set up your payment plan for the remaining amount, so that it might be easier to book a shoot! If you have any questions about our payment plans, shoot us an email while setting up your session!
